How to Ask a Girl Out on a First Date?
A word of caution: refusal is still possible. Even if you’re doing everything perfectly, the girl may have reasons to refuse to meet. Nevertheless, the more competently you act, the higher the likelihood of agreement. Here are some rules to help you get consent:
- Be polite. Communicate with the girl carefully and courteously. Give the impression of a pleasant person. This is the basis of her consent.
- Don’t hurry. Don’t offer to meet until you get to know each other better and chat for a while. It is necessary to allow confident sympathy to arise — experiencing it, the girl will agree with a greater probability.
- Think your date out. Where you will go, what you will do, what you will talk about. If you can improvise with the latter, the first two points should be prepared in advance to avoid awkwardness on the spot.
- Choose the correct wording. Since you will receive an answer immediately after this, it is crucial to say something that doesn’t kill all previous efforts and persuade the girl to agree.
- Don’t push. If a girl doubts, you need to normally ask the reason for the doubts and convince of the harmlessness and safety of the venture. But you shouldn’t just stand pat rigidly: this will convince the girl that she doubted it for a reason.
How to Prepare for a Date
You have chosen the best place for a date and received the coveted consent to date: what to do now? Make sure that everything goes at the highest level.