A word of caution: refusal is still possible. Even if you’re doing everything perfectly, the girl may have reasons to refuse to meet. Nevertheless, the more competently you act, the higher the likelihood of agreement. Here are some rules to help you get consent:
- Be polite. Communicate with the girl carefully and courteously. Give the impression of a pleasant person. This is the basis of her consent.
- Don’t hurry. Don’t offer to meet until you get to know each other better and chat for a while. It is necessary to allow confident sympathy to arise — experiencing it, the girl will agree with a greater probability.
- Think your date out. Where you will go, what you will do, what you will talk about. If you can improvise with the latter, the first two points should be prepared in advance to avoid awkwardness on the spot.
- Choose the correct wording. Since you will receive an answer immediately after this, it is crucial to say something that doesn’t kill all previous efforts and persuade the girl to agree.
- Don’t push. If a girl doubts, you need to normally ask the reason for the doubts and convince of the harmlessness and safety of the venture. But you shouldn’t just stand pat rigidly: this will convince the girl that she doubted it for a reason.
How to Prepare for a Date
You have chosen the best place for a date and received the coveted consent to date: what to do now? Make sure that everything goes at the highest level.
- Think over the program. Where you can have coffee, where the places are picturesque enough for a walk, what movie to watch if it’s about cinema. You can include something original in the form of a walk on the rooftops or horseback riding.
- Take care of your budget. It’s customary to pay for girls on dates. This happens in most cases, and the girl may be offended if she has to pay for herself.
- Think over the look. It should be appropriate for the occasion. Clothes should be clean and tidy.
- If you want the girl to be glad, come up with a small gift or give flowers.
- Think over topics for conversation: what you want to ask, what will you tell about yourself. It is better to have a couple of trump cards in case of awkward silence or to find out about the girl what you would like to ask.
