The main mistake of an inexperienced guy is the naive question: “May I kiss you?” In 99 cases out of 100, the girl will answer “No”, but by no means because she doesn’t want to, but because the responsibility was shifted onto her, and she was faced with an uncomfortable choice. The best way to kiss a girl on a first date is to make her want to kiss a guy, which will help him with a few tricks and rules.
Preparing for a Date: Pleasant Smell
A kiss is primarily a physical contact, so even the most interesting and attractive gentleman must take care of his smell. No matter how much a guy brushes his teeth before a long date, the smell in his mouth will have time to return, but the owner of this very mouth won’t feel it — this is how a person’s sense of smell works. Therefore, you should bring a refreshing spray or chewing gum with you.
Touch Test
To do this, the guy just needs to touch the girl a little more intimate than a short acquaintance allows, and check how her body reacts to him. She pulled your hand away as if scalded — it’s worth temporarily forgetting about kisses. If there was no reaction at all, or the girl even leaned forward, it means that she’s quite ready for kissing.
Hair Test
Such a seemingly non-vital part of the body, like hair, women allow touching only after they’re imbued with affection for the person. You can try to straighten a strand of hair that has fallen over her eyes or remove a tree leaf that is supposedly stuck. If a girl allows her hair to be touched, with a probability of 80% she’s ready for a kiss. However, this technique shouldn’t be confused with the “fatherly” stroking on the top of a head — you have to touch the front strands.
Lip Hypnosis
Long-lasting looks on the lips of the girl have an excellent effect. A guy just needs to silently look at them, and then make eye contact with his chosen one. Since it’s the last stage before the kiss itself, here you have to reveal all the cards and ask a direct question: “Do you want to kiss me?” The whole gamut of answers, except for the firm and hot “NO!”, means “Yes, but I’m shy.” Of course, this question is a pure formality, obtaining consent. The guy will have to kiss the girl and not vice versa.
What a Kiss Should Be
A guy should kiss a girl for the first time quickly, without undue passion, and on the cheek. Let her get used to the sensations and to him at least a little.
